Meri krismas everyone!!
Hmmm.. We had a very quiet chrissy., lepak kat umah layan tv.. JJ is not feeling well so he basically slept thruout the day. All the travelling, running around in bdo, stranded at the airport for 7 hours waiting for our connecting flight, rain rain rain in trg, hot & sunny in kedah must have gotten into him. Poor thing..
He woke up just before asar and said "i dont even know what christmas feels like anymore".. Aiyooo... Sedihnya.... I know that he is homesick. Family jauh. Thanks to fb dpt gak kami berutus ucapan dgn mereka disana. Nak skype depa sume pi holiday..
Tahun ni dah tahun ketiga kami berkrismas tanpa keluarga JJ. First year 2010 i cant remember what we did, last year 2011 kami balik trg tp kalut2 dgn arwah kakak ipar yg sedang tenat who finally succumbed to her sickness and passed away on 28/12 (al fatihah).. Tahun ni 2012, JJ tak sihat pulak. Kami mmg plan nak balik sana for xmas this year, tp aunty V pi berjalan la pulak time holiday n kami pun baru je blk dari bdo.. Next year la pulak try to go back for xmas.
Xmas kat sana lebih kurang mcm raya kita jugak. First time xmas bersama family JJ was in 2007, a quiet lunch with the family. Aunty N dtg dari sydney satu keluarga and on boxing day i went on my annual shopping spree with jenny. 2008 sangat meriah sbb kakak H dan anak2 menakan mai dari Auckland, abang T n family dtg dari Sydney bersama2 aunty N n family jugak. Mcm nak runtuh rumah aunty V ramai2 serbu. We had a wonderful new year celebration, JJ order lamb sekoq dari halal butcher kami n we had lamb on the spit.. Mmg maveles.. Tahun 2009 i kena kerja on xmas day so lps kerja baru pi umah aunty V. Very quiet xmas sbb kami2 je yg ada... Bila dah duk Msia, tak berkrismas dah kami sbb berdua (plus fatty n string bean) aje..
Even hari raya activity seems weird for JJ, dia dah biasa xmas cuma mkn2 dgn immediate family, tukaq2 hadiah pahtu lepak tgk tv ke, pi pantai ke.. 1st time eid kat sini dia pelik sbb kena pi ziarah umah org semua.. Tp dia eksaited dpt rasa mcm2 makanan yg dia xpenah tgk. By the 3rd house dia dah kenyang sbb makan kaw2 dkt the first 2 houses tadi.. Hahahah...
Interesting sebenaqnya kawin campoq ni, byk benda kita boleh belajar.. Tapi dugaan dia pun banyak la jugak.. I suppose all marriages are like that kan? Have to try and tolerate with each other..
Mak aih.. Tersasar sungguh citer i mlm nih.. Sebelum i merapu dgn lebih lanjut.. Here's fatty n string bean wishing everybody a wonderful christmas and a joyful new year!!
Wassalam...
adakah kita set kampung sama?*org Trg* dan partner kita pun org sama kampung gok?*down under?* hah jawab derah hehehe
ReplyDeletemerry xmas ada gok org nam sambut xmas, hok kita dia balik raya kapong dia taung ni...huhuhuhuhu
Assalamaulaikum dear SF,
ReplyDeleteany marriage ... mixed or otherwise is challenging ... sabar and syukur i think is the key ... sabar is due to understanding ... syukur is due to Iman ... my simple way of understanding marriage and spouse ... :)
Wassalam kak Real...
ReplyDeleteAlhamdulillah... You are absolutely right!! You've summed up marriage in the simplest way possible yet very very true...
Bole sy quote kak real n tulis kat fesbuk tak?
:)
Silakan sayang ... may Allah SWT guide us always in our married life ameen ... :)
Deleteameen ameen ameen.... :)
DeleteJeng jeng jeng....
ReplyDeleteKalu sekapung, next year bulehla kita balik raya sekali ye? (kalu balik time ni ngarung air kena bawok cetong ah se..) ^^